The divorce rate has increased extensively in the past few years. People from different cultures and countries are facing this issue. What is the reason behind this? Our fast moving lifestyle, busy schedule, low tolerance levels and the list is endless. However, this does not mean you have to keep living in a place where you first it hard to be happy or content. Moreover, an abusive marriage should end whether it is physical or mental or emotional abuse. Although it is not easy to cope and deal with this issue, but you can learn and train yourself and learn how to be happy in this emotional journey.
- Respect each other’s feelings – you have to learn how to respect each other’s feelings. You may yet love him/her but he/she may not reciprocate the same way. Keep a healthy relation even if you feel you will die with the pain you are going through.
- Don’t blame yourself – a loveless marriage cannot be blamed on anyone. Blaming yourself will not fix anything in between you both. So, go easy on yourself and remember it’s not you it’s the circumstances.
- Learn to let go – it can be the good memories or the bad ones, just simply learn to let go. There is no point in holding onto something that was never yours in the first place. As a matter of fact, it will only make things worse and will increase the pain if you do not let go of it.
- You don’t have to do this all alone – share your feelings with a friend, family member or anyone your close to. It is always to say things and forget about it and move on than keeping it all inside of you and suffer.
Always remember that whatever happens, happens for the best and life brings light after a dark night. Be positive and you will definitely start feeling positive.
